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Woman Receives Award for Helping Others

with Disabilities Around the World

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PARKER, COLORADO

Woman Receives Award for Helping Others

with Disabilities Around the World

Hal O'Leary Awards Dinner Hosted by the Colorado Rockies on Coors Field

WHO: Sherri Connell, 42, of Parker was the recipient of the 2005 Hal O'Leary Inspiration Award for reaching out to others living with "invisible disabilities" -- people who show no outward signs of illness, but struggle daily with debilitating symptoms. -Photo on right: Sherri and Keli McGregor, President of the Rockies-

Born in Illinois and growing up in Colorado, Sherri loved to sing and dance in musicals, model, act in commercials, cheerlead, ride her horse, lift weights and enjoy her career in accounting. She obtained a Bachelor’s in Human Resources, another in Leadership and a minor in Liberal Arts. In 1991, Sherri was starting her Master's in HR when she suddenly became disabled due to Progressive Multiple Sclerosis and Late-Chronic Lyme Disease. Once extremely active, she now she struggles just to take a shower or go to her doctors' appointments. Because to others she "looks" fine, people cannot understand why Sherri can no longer do the things she used to be able to do. To help friends and family better understand what she goes through, Sherri began to write in her journal and print copies of it for people to read. One day her husband, Wayne, suggested posting them in a website to make it easier for her to explain to others how her life had changed. They called the website, The Invisible Disabilities Advocate (www.MyIDA.org).

As word spread beyond friends and family, thousands of people began visiting the website from around the world. Wayne and Sherri have received countless emails telling them how Sherri's writings "say exactly what I have been trying to say" to loved ones, but had been unable to put into words. Sherri quickly learned that she was not the only one wrestling with others thinking she was just being lazy, because she did not "look" like she had a disability. The tools on IDA often help those living with a debilitating condition restore communication, create understanding and develop support from their friend or family member. Many have written letters of thanks and stories of how their loved one gained a better understanding of what they are going through, after reading IDA's publications.

Wayne Connell is the Founder and President of The Invisible Disabilities Advocate. IDA is a non-profit organization that provides articles, links, a support group and more. IDA also offers Wayne and Sherri's booklet titled, But You LOOK Good! A Guide to Understanding and Encouraging People Living with Chronic Illness and Pain. Copies have been requested from readers across the globe.

WHAT/WHEN/WHERE: On Thursday, September 15, 2005, The Colorado Rockies Baseball Club hosted the 2005 Hal O'Leary Awards. Six local athletes and individuals were honored for making a significant difference in the lives of those in the disabled community. Hal O'Leary is the founder of The National Sports Center for the Disabled. The sold-out event included approximately 350 people on the infield playing surface at Coors Field.

 

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Couple is a Voice to Those Living with

Invisible Disabilities

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Couple is a Voice to Those Living with

Invisible Disabilities

Husband Helps Disabled Wife Reach Out to Others

WHO/WHY: Sherri Connell used to sing and dance in musicals, ride her horse, lift weights and enjoy her career. She obtained three college degrees and was starting her Master's when she suddenly became disabled due to Progressive Multiple Sclerosis and Late-Chronic Lyme Disease. Now she struggles just to take a shower or go to a doctor's appointment. Because to others she "looks" fine, people cannot understand why Sherri can no longer do the things she used to be able to do. To help friends and family better understand what she goes through, Sherri began to write in her journal and print copies of it for people to read. One day her husband, Wayne, suggested posting them in a website to make it easier for her to explain to others how her life had changed. They called the website, The Invisible Disabilities Advocate (www.MyIDA.org).

WHAT: Soon, the word spread beyond friends and family, as thousands of people were visiting Wayne's site from around the world. They have received countless emails telling them how Sherri's writings "say exactly what I have been trying to say" to loved ones, but had been unable to put into words. Sherri quickly learned that she was not the only one wrestling with others thinking she was just being lazy, because she did not "look" like she had a disability. The tools on IDA often help those living with a debilitating condition restore communication, create understanding and develop support from their friend or family member. Many have written letters of thanks and stories of how their loved one gained a better understanding of what they are going through, after reading IDA's publications.

Wayne Connell is the Founder and President of The Invisible Disabilities Advocate. IDA is a non-profit organization that provides articles, links, a support group and more. IDA also offers Wayne and Sherri's booklet titled, But You LOOK Good! A Guide to Understanding and Encouraging People Living with Chronic Illness and Pain. Copies have been requested from readers across the globe. Full Story

 

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Disabled Woman's Story

Featured in Doctor's Book

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Disabled Woman's Story

Featured in Doctor's Book

Dr. Jeffrey Boyd tells Sherri Connell's Story in Order to Help Others

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IDA would like to announce that the recently released book, Being Sick Well: Joyful Living Despite Chronic Illness by Jeffrey H. Boyd  features Sherri Connell's story in the Using Your Suffering to Help Others section! ...Boyd—whose own late wife suffered from heart and kidney problems, paralysis and strokes—extends an honest and compassionate resource for the chronically ill and their caregivers. Boyd has two goals: to persuade readers that we are facing an "epidemic" of chronic illness, and to help sick people have more joyful lives. In good self-help form, he offers 20 "strategies" for joyful living.

IDA has special autographed issues available through their website (US Only). Click Here for More Information! 

Wayne Connell is the Founder and President of The Invisible Disabilities Advocate. IDA is a non-profit organization that provides articles, links, a support group and more. IDA also offers Wayne and Sherri's booklet titled, But You LOOK Good! A Guide to Understanding and Encouraging People Living with Chronic Illness and Pain. Copies have been requested from readers across the globe.

 

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Disabled Woman's Advice to Loved Ones

Quoted in Medical Book

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Disabled Woman's Advice to Loved Ones

Quoted in Medical Book

IDA's Words Help Sufferers Living with Trigeminal Neuralgia

1-STRIKING BACK! THE TRIGEMINAL NEURALGIA AND FACE PAIN HANDBOOKIDA is so excited to announce that the newly released 500+ page book, Striking Back, has used our booklet, But You LOOK Good! as a resource and has quoted from it in their Helping People chapter! It is an informative guide for those living with Trigeminal Neuralgia, their loved ones and their doctors.

Striking Back. The Trigeminal Neuralgia and Face Pain Handbook. is published by TNA in 2004 and authored by George Weigel and Kenneth F. Casey, M.D. It is written in layman's terms, describes all aspects of TN and facial pain, and provides information and resources for patients, family, and medical professionals. A must-have guide for every facial pain patient!

Click Here for More Information About TN and This Book!

Wayne Connell is the Founder and President of The Invisible Disabilities Advocate. IDA is a non-profit organization that provides articles, links, a support group and more. IDA also offers Wayne and Sherri's booklet titled, But You LOOK Good! A Guide to Understanding and Encouraging People Living with Chronic Illness and Pain. Copies have been requested from readers across the globe.

 

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The Disabilities are Invisible,

The Outreach Isn't!

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The Disabilities are Invisible, the Outreach Isn't

Couple Reaching Out to People with Invisible Disabilities on Magazine Cover

In the Fall of 2004, Wayne and Sherri Connell were featured on the cover of HopeKeepers Magazine! This is an excerpt of the article from the publication.

"Sherri was an active young woman with two college degrees and an exciting career. But in 1991, just as she was to preparing to purchase a new home for herself and her beloved horse, she became ill and unable to work. . .

Overwhelmed with emotions surrounding her diagnosis of multiple sclerosis, Sherri began keeping a journal, focusing on all of the confusing misunderstandings people had about her illness. She transformed this into a pamphlet to pass onto caring friends who wanted to know more. Six years later, after she married Wayne, he suggested jumping onto the world wide web to share her writings with others. "When he offered to put the three pamphlets I had written onto a website on the internet, I said, 'What? Who would read it?' I knew the internet was huge and thought this idea was kind of silly. Yet once I thought about it I figured he might actually be onto something. If he did this, when I met someone, all I would have to do is to hand them a card with the website address and say, 'Here. This will explain everything.' That would be such a relief! So we put up the web site."

When we started our website, we grappled with a name that would properly describe a condition that is debilitating, yet not obvious. We came up with the term "invisible disabilities." This does not necessarily exclude those with an evident impairment or those utilizing an assistive device. For example, in my case, I used a wheelchair but was restricted by my inner symptoms, not the challenge of the chair itself. One living with an invisible disability has symptoms that are debilitating such as: extreme fatigue, pain, weakness, dizziness, cognitive dysfunction and more.

Wayne Connell is the Founder and President of The Invisible Disabilities Advocate. He put together some of Sherri's most popular writings, had them bound into a booklet and titled it, But You LOOK Good! A Guide to Understanding and Encouraging People Living with Chronic Illness and Pain. Wayne has shipped copies all over the globe, without profit.

Today, the web site, The Invisible Disabilities Advocate, gets over 125,000 hits per month and Wayne and Sherri feel blessed to reach out to others, even if it means through their suffering. Wayne Connell is the Founder and President of The Invisible Disabilities Advocate. IDA offers Wayne and Sherri's booklet titled, But You LOOK Good! A Guide to Understanding and Encouraging People Living with Chronic Illness and Pain. Copies have been requested from readers across the globe.

 

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By: Sherri Connell

But You LOOK Good! 

 

A Guide to Understanding and Encouraging People Living With Chronic Illness and Pain

 

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